Friday, February 24, 2012

Yes...this is what it feels like

Grandy has been absent for a couple months.

It has been a difficult time in the Grandy home, as fubby has lost his mother. The process of grieving and dealing with her effects has been a bit overwhelming to deal with. There have been many times where I have started to write a blog post or a poem, or post a picture, and then I stop. I didn't realize the impact it all would have on me, nor did I want to acknowledge it out loud.

Grandy stayed strong for Fubby & Little Man Grandy, who I am proud to say have been doing amazing with how they are coping with the loss.

In the last two months, Grandy has also been in charge of various events. Coordinating events, "task forces", putting out fires on my desk at work, and essentially giving new meaning to the phrase "directing traffic", has left me feeling a bit like...

...well...

THIS!!

4 comments:

songbird's crazy world said...

Missed you, Grandy. Sorry things have been so hectic. Glad to see you back.

Feisty Irish Wench said...

UGH! It totally blows chunks to deal with all of this.
I'll just quote my husband's aunt as stated to me when my mom died. To sum it up so succinctly, LOSING A PARENT SUCKS!
Prayers for peace to come to all who knew Fubby's mother.

Grandy said...

Thank you both!!! Hanging in...hanging on!! ;)

Suzanne said...

I'm sorry for the loss of fubby's mom. Losing a parent is never easy.

And effects? Yeah, still dealing with that. I hope yours is tidied up soon-and those little dogies are rustled up soon.